
Sh*t 2 Say With T&A
Shit to Say with T&A is the unfiltered podcast where nothing’s off-limits. Hosted by two bold besties with too much on their minds and just enough wine, we dive into hot topics, pop culture drama, and the real-life stuff no one wants to say out loud—but we will.
Expect laughs, loud opinions, interactive games, and audience call-ins where we dish out the advice you didn’t know you needed (but definitely asked for). Whether we’re spilling tea or taking shots at truth or dare, it’s always a vibe.
Because let’s be real—we’ve all got Shit to Say.
Sh*t 2 Say With T&A
Growing Up 90s - Expectations vs. Reality
Episode 2: Growing Up 90s — Expectations vs Reality (And Now We’re Parents Too)
The neon was bright, the expectations were high, and the Tamagotchis were dying in our backpacks. In this episode, Tati & Lex take a nostalgic (and slightly roasted) trip back to the 90s — when adulthood looked like a Lisa Frank daydream and Boy Meets World had us thinking life would magically fall into place by 22.
From the lies we were fed (“you’ll use cursive forever!”) to the truth bombs of adulting while queer, Black, broke, or burnt out, we unpack what it really means to grow up and raise a new generation. Get ready for mixtape memories, generational hot takes, and the very real moments that shattered the illusion.
Oh — and we’ve got a list of the Top 5 Lies the 90s Told Us, complete with side-eyes and singalongs.
👶🏽👑 Because now we’re the parents — and we’re doing it our way.
🎶 DM us your favorite 90s jam or the biggest lie you believed growing up!
👀 Next up: Unlearning the Bullshit — let’s talk about the rules we’re tossing out for good.